Do you have a dream you yearn to come true, and yet it hasn’t? Or it’s taking much longer than you expected? Me too. Perhaps this will help.
I was talking to a client about something in their life that is taking a long time to manifest.
The client told me they were frustrated with themself because ‘they know better’ to not focus on what they don’t want. It had a blaming tone to it. That is one part of the Law of Attraction that I am not fond of, the aspect of self-blame. If things aren’t turning out the way you want them or as quickly as you want them, you internalize it as your fault. I sure have done that myself. And yet, while your thoughts, words, and actions play a big part in creating your world, much is going on outside your control – other people, timing, or other extenuating circumstances.
I remind myself that it wasn’t meant to be if something didn’t work out. That doesn’t mean I’m not sad about it or disappointed. I feel what I need to feel and then take a step forward.
I strive to be LOVING, kind, compassionate, and peaceful the majority of the time, and I am the majority. And sometimes, I’m frustrated, angry, or want to quit because I don’t feel I am doing enough. I feel my feels and take a step forward.
If things aren’t happening as quickly as you would like…
Be gentle with yourself on the journey. Just because it isn’t happening right now doesn’t mean it won’t happen.
Look for things to be grateful for in your day. Finding gratitude is easier on good days, but it’s there to be found on the days you might be struggling too.
Think of things you are celebrating now that might have been a challenge to get. I have many examples of things I am happy about in my life right now, and I didn’t know ‘how’ they were manifesting, yet I felt my frustration and continued to take a step forward.
Focus MORE on the wants than the don’t want. Allow the don’t want to clarify what you want and shift it into a want.
And mostly, Be gentle with yourself friends as we each venture through this beautiful and messy world.
Until next time, whether you are in celebration, sorrow, or somewhere in between, I see you and YOU matter.
Much LOVE and big hugs,
If you are trying to manifest something in your life, EMAIL ME and let me know what it is so I can hold the vision with you.
I am doing the best that I can, and that is enough.
Words to LOVE by:
The only reason for time is so that everything doesn’t happen at once. – Albert Einstein
Don’t spend time beating on a wall, hoping to transform it into a door. – Coco Chanel
Time you enjoy wasting, was not wasted. – John Lennon